One of the psychological defenses we have is to repaint our past to justify our present choices for our future. Have you ever heard someone say, “We were never close…” or “He never really did anything nice for me…” or something that you simply knew wasn’t true? You may wonder why the person would even say something when you can produce video, witnesses, and proofs that their statements were never so. What they are trying to do is convince themselves of something so they…
